Thursday, March 06, 2008

Housework and Sex

According to an AP story today, husbands who help out more around the house may get a reward they weren't expecting - more sex:

American men still don't pull their weight when it comes to housework and child care, but collectively they're not the slackers they used to be. The average dad has gradually been getting better about picking himself up off the sofa and pitching in, according to a new report in which a psychologist suggests the payoff for doing more chores could be more sex...

...Joshua Coleman, a San Francisco-area psychologist and author of "The Lazy Husband: How to Get Men to Do More Parenting and Housework," said equitable sharing of housework can lead to a happier marriage and more frequent sex.

"If a guy does housework, it looks to the woman like he really cares about her — he's not treating her like a servant," said Coleman, who is affiliated with the Council on Contemporary Families. "And if a woman feels stressed out because the house is a mess and the guy's sitting on the couch while she's vacuuming, that's not going to put her in the mood."

I can just see it now. "Hi, honey," you say as she gets home after work. "I fixed that leak in the sink you were complaining about and I folded and put away all the clothes that were in the dryer. Oh, and I did the vacuuming, too. So...how about some head?"

Yeah. That'll work.

10 Comments:

Blogger QueensGuy said...

Change the last line to "so....how do you manage to still look so hot at the end of a long day at work?" and you may be surprised....

7:42 AM, March 06, 2008  
Blogger New England Guy said...

PROPAGANDA. I think Cosmo once did this story except they said "jewelry" or "listening" instead of housework. Doing more chores leads to the expectation of doing even more chores.
Welcome aboard Gaucho/Vermont Guy.

8:08 AM, March 06, 2008  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Has this turned into a porn site?

11:46 AM, March 06, 2008  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Oh, God, I hope so.

2:00 PM, March 06, 2008  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

If it involves any of these guys in their pajamas, I'm not interested

2:16 PM, March 06, 2008  
Blogger Gaucho said...

No, it's just sweeps month here in blogland.

Of course, I'll be happy to blog topless if that will help.

4:51 PM, March 06, 2008  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Pajama Guy "Now with 100% extra Gaucho."

6:12 PM, March 06, 2008  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I don't believe these studies at all. I think they are just lies put out there by women to try and get husbands to do more housework.

9:41 PM, March 06, 2008  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Try it! (advice from a woman with a full-time job)

Causing her to break into a huge smile as soon as she's seen what you've done will be rewarded. Getting her in a good mood always works at our house.

Besides, it's probably a big change from her normal reaction to what you've done, eh?

10:37 AM, March 07, 2008  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

My main reaction to these entries is that these guys are more afraid of trying out a few chores than they are interested in getting more sex.

8:51 AM, March 10, 2008  

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